MEDITATIONS
WELL BEING AND QUALITY OF LIFE
Support Activities Developed by:
Michael C. Irving, Ph.D. and Cheryl Irving, B.A., Psychotherapists


Psychotherapy
& Clinical Work

 

Self Help Program
- Overview/Introduction

Coping Strategies
- Grounding
- Containment
- Self Nurture
- Personal Support
- Art as Healing

Creating Coping Lists
- Coping Lists
- Activities
- Boundaries
- Stress
- Crisis

Meditations
-Meditation Gallery
-Progressive Relaxatiton

Publications

 

 

 


Survivor Monument Project

-Monument Home Page
-Monument StoryProject
-A Healing Monument

 

Progressive Relaxation Exercise

Directly below is a common exercise for reducing stress, calming and being grounded and present in the here and now. It should take about 10 minutes to run through one set of the progressive relaxation exercises. To get the greatest benefit do the full set twice which should take about 20 minutes.

Sit upright in a comfortable position with your back against your chair. Take a few deep breaths and allow yourself to relax. Breathe in through your nose and breathe out through your mouth.

Squeeze your hands tight in a curled fist. Holding. Holding. Holding. Now let your hands go. Relax. Take four deep breaths.

Tighten up your forearms by bending your hands backwards towards your wrist and hold tight. Holding. Holding. Holding. Now let your hands down and relax your forearms. Take four deep breaths, in through your nose and out through your mouth.

Hold your hands up to your shoulders and tighten your biceps and your triceps. Holding. Holding. Holding. The let your arms down and relax. Take four deep breaths.

Tighten your shoulders by holding your shoulders up to your ears. Holding tight. Holding. Holding. Let your shoulders down and relax. Take four deep breaths.

Tighten your jaw and squeeze your mouth tight. Holding. Holding. Holding. Take four deep breaths.

Squeezing your eyes and your forehead tight. Holding and squeezing. Holding. Holding. Relax your eyes and forehead, letting go. Take four deep breaths. Continue to breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth.

Tighten up your neck by pressing your chin down against your chest. Tightening. Holding. Holding. Let go, lift your chin, relax. Take four deep breaths.

Move your shoulders back with your elbows at your sides and tighten your back. Holding. Holding. Holding. Relax and let your shoulders rest.

Move your shoulders forward and tighten your chest. Squeeze and hold. Hold. Let go and relax. Now take four deep breaths.

Tighten up your belly and abdomen. Holding it tight. Squeezing. Holding. Letting it go. Take four deep breaths into your belly. In through your nose and out through your mouth.

Tighten up your pelvis and your buttocks. Holding tight. Squeezing. Tight. Letting go. Take four deep breaths as you become more relaxed.

Now press your heels against the couch or chair that you're sitting on and allow that to help tighten the top of your legs. Pressing and holding tight. Squeezing. Tight. Letting go and relax in your legs. Again taking four deep breaths into your nose and out through your mouth.

Pressing your toes into the floor lifting your heels high, allow this to tighten your calves. Pressing and holding tight. Holding. Holding. Offer your heels and relax. Take four deep breaths.

Now lift your toes off the floor and pressure heels down to tighten your shins. Holding your toes up, tightening your shins. Holding. Holding. Letting your toes drop down. Relaxing and taking four deep breaths.

Squeezing your toes together tightening up your feet. Curling those toes. Holding tight. Holding. Relaxing your feet. Taking four deep breaths in through your nose and out through your mouth. Feeling the relaxation with each breath.

Now tightening your fists, your feet, your legs tighten your arms in your chest, your abdomen, your mouth, your eyes and forehead. Holding your whole body tight. Squeezing. Holding. Now let go and feel the relaxation for your whole body. Take another four deep breaths into your nose and out through your mouth.


Become even more relaxed and calm

To become even more relaxed, start again with your hands and move all way to the top of your head and then down to the bottom of your feet.

 

Four activity lists that are helpful for survivors are:

1. Daily/weekly activities to TAKE CARE of YOURSELF and STAY HEALTHY.
2. What to do to CREATE BOUNDARIES.
3. What to do to RELIEVE STRESS.
4. What to do COPE WITH CRISIS.

 

Michael C. Irving, Ph.D. and Cheryl Irving, B.A.
have a private practice serving
as psychotherapists with individuals and groups.

For more than 25 years our practice has encompassed individual clients, psychotherapy workshops, trainings on - healing emotional trauma through regressive therapies, mind/body integration, positive psychology, dissociative disorders, ego state therapy, art therapy, prenatal parenting and working with pre and prenatal issues through art.
TO BOOK an appointment CALL
(416) 469-4764 

michael@irvingstudios.com
cheryl@irvingstudios.com

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